GIFTED PET: HOWL-IDAY DOG PRESENTS

Four fab gifts for your four-legged friend…

Found My Animal Leash

Forget common nylon leashes.  Who wants to be common?  The absolute best dog leash [photos left], combining style and function, is made from natural-colored sailboat rope and marine-grade cast Italian brass which patinas beautifully over time.  Guaranteed you will love this.  Twenty-five percent of all profits go to the Louis Animal Foundation.  $56 to $68.

FetchDog Fisherman Sweater

These marvelous 100% wool sweaters [photo below right] are hand knit in the Northern Highlands of South America by descendants of the Inca Indians, who are paid a living wage through Fair Trade guidelines.  It’s Truman’s favorite sweater because it covers his entire chest and stomach.  $40.

Barkwheats Dog Biscuits

All the ingredients in these all natural, hand-crafted biscuits are grown by small-scale organic farmers in New England and Belize and certified fair trade.  $8.49

Miss Fido Manners Complete Book of Dog Etiquette

From dining out, to the proper do’s-and-don’ts of traveling with panache, this book, by nationally-recognized pet expert Charlotte Reed (a.k.a. Miss Fido Manners) shows readers the best practices for flawless canine behavior in every situation.  $12.95.

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PIT BULL HUNTS FOR CHRISTMAS TREE: “IT BEATS HANGING WITH KITTENS,” SAYS TRUMAN

Last Saturday - a gorgeous, brilliantly sunny day - Truman took his post-Thanksgiving turkey-filled stomach, north to hunt for his Christmas tree from the Holiday Tree Farm in Augusta, New Jersey.  He caught a seven-foot Douglas Fir on which he plans to put 1100 white lights and a glowing 12-inch tree-topping star. 

“It was nice to have a break from hanging with the two kittens that have invaded my house,” said Truman of his new housemates Hedda (grey) and Parson (black) [photo above left].  “There are two more healthy, purrrfect kittens that need a good home, if you know of anyone.”

Truman shared some photos exclusively with TheBPlot readers…

   

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BOO!…err…BARK?…HALLOWEEN PET PARADE

Asbury Bark – the area’s top independent pet store – is hosting a Halloween Pet Parade and costume contest for your animal companions Saturday (Oct. 31), benefitting the Greyhound Friends of New Jersey. 

The pet parade, on Cookman Avenue, will kick-off an afternoon, evening and night of Halloween festivities all around Asbury Park.

Registration for the parade and contest will begin at noon at Asbury Bark.  The parade will begin at 2 pm.  A minimum $2 donation to GFNJ per registrant is suggested. 

“Following the parade, all participants return to the store for the judging of pet costumes in three categories: most creative, best-dressed and best overall costume,” said Jim Modica, Asbury Bark.  “Then, members of the Greyhound Foundation will be here with Greyhounds that have been rescued to discuss the breed, what it entails to own a Greyhound and more.”

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“YAPPY HOUR” PHOTO BOOK

Images from Wonder Bar’s”Yappy Hour” – happy hour for dogs and the people who love them - Thursday (Oct.8), with Asbury Park’s Dog Whisperer, Jim Erven, Absolute Dog Control II. 

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MAN OF THE “HOUR”

Now that canine companions are permitted on the boardwalk, it is a great opportunity to take a very brisk autumn stroll to Yappy Hour – outdoor happy hour for dogs and the people that love them – at the WonderBar. 

After hearing from tons of dog owners and dog lovers that Yappy Hour was a great way to spend a few hours with neighbors and their pets, I went last Thursday. 

The dog-lover’s spirit and camaraderie greet you at the front gate, along with a handful of energetically wagging tails.  It’s a hoot to see dogs of all shapes, sizes and pedigrees running around carefree.

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Watching over the dog’s “controlled free play” is Jim Erven, owner of Absolute Control Dog Training II.  Jim, a law enforcement officer during the day, seems to know every Yappy Hour dog’s name and personality – playing the roles of party organizer, matchmaker and top-dog. 

“The fun part for me is watching the little dogs playfully chase the big dogs,” said Jim, as we both watched a brown and black Chihuahua running behind a black and white dog I would swear was a pony he was so big. 

Many companion canine owners told me that they were fearful of having their “kids” around the other thirty to forty dogs who attend the Thursday and Saturday evening events.  After meeting Jim, however, they knew that their most pressing concern would be their beer getting warm or the ice watering down their margarita too much.

“Jim is fierce,” said Amy Quinn.  “I have seen him transform dogs into great Yappy Hour guests.  I know many dog owners who are thankful for his expertise.”

Jim – who told me he has trained hundreds of dogs through the past 14 years and also serves as a K9 scent detection trainer and patrol trainer – knows dog psychology like Carson Cressley knows fashion.  He has worked miracles with puppies and older dogs and swears you can teach an old dog new tricks.

“The biggest mistake owners make is that they treat there dogs like they are human,” said Jim, who has helped train some of the members of the Asbury Park Canine Unit. “Owners think dogs understand things like a person would.  Most habits of the dog can be changed – it’s the owner that’s hard to change but we can do it.”   

Jim has a rare commanding and caring energy that makes every man, woman and dog want to sit, stay and roll over.  He is Asbury Park’s own no-nonsense version of the Dog Whisperer – recently accomplishing what others said was an impossible task.

“I began working with a dog that was aggressive with everyone – even its owner,” said Jim, who offers private training classes.  “I had to teach the owner how to be a dog handler.  Once the owner was not in fear of his dog the rest became easy.  No dog is untrainable.”

Debbie DeLisa, manager of WonderBar, and creator of the Yappy Hour concept, which hosts approximately 125 dogs Thursdays during the summer, told me “Jim is the most important part of the evening.”

If everyone in the world could get along the way the dogs – all sizes, pedigrees, personalities – at Yappy Hour do, every issue would be history. 

Yappy Hour will “continue until it gets too cold,” said Debbie.  Call for more information. 

The facts about the new “dogs on the boardwalk” ordinance – click here.

Richard@TheBPlot.com

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DOGS ON THE BOARDWALK: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THE NEW ORDINANCE

Our canine companions are now officially permitted on the boardwalk.  Jim Modica – owner of Asbury Bark and a member of the dog committee assisting in the development of the new-as-a-day-old-puppy ordinance - and Councilwoman Sue Henderson gave us the low-down…

“The new ’pilot’ ordinance will allow dogs to be on the Asbury Park boardwalk from October 1 thru April 30,” said Jim.  “Between May 1 and September 31 dogs will be prohibited from the Asbury Park boardwalk. 

“This ordinance amendment requires that dog owners, while on the boardwalk:

1.  Attend to their dogs at all times (not leaving them alone tied to something)

2.  Ensure their dog is currently licensed (in any town and the owner must be able to produce the license on-demand)

3.  Use leashes no longer than 6 feet (when on the boardwalk)

4.  Immediately clean up after their dog  

“‘Responsible dog ownership’ – meaning cleaning up after your dog is the key to this pilot ordinance being renewed.  ‘Pilot’ means it needs to be renewed each year by the City Council.  People who see other people not cleaning up after their dogs may want to, and need to, remind them of the importance of doing so.”

Councilwoman Sue Henderson added:

“This ordinance – consistent with the regulation in Ocean Grove – will mean that more people will be down at the boardwalk during the off season and I hope it will bring more business.  It does not apply to the beach area.  The dog beach is located on the northernmost part of the city. 

“I walked my girls on Sunday and Monday and met up with many people walking their dogs.  I even noticed several people eating outdoors with their dogs next to their table.

“I would love to thank all of the members of the dog committee which had members who were for the ordinance and some were against,” said Sue.  ”We had representatives from the police department, from businesses in the city, Terry Reidy and residents.  We will continue to meet to try to solve problems like licensing and free rabies vaccinations.  We know that many people have dogs in our community – we want to be a dog-friendly city.”

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SHELTER COMPANION ANIMALS & PUTTING YOUR JUNK TO GOOD USE

THE smart and sensible article below from the “pet” section of MarthaStewart’s web site, is fabulous - shedding light on how companion animals wind up in shelters and why no one should be afraid of adopting from a shelter. 

While we are on the subject of animal shelters, Asbury Park resident and pet lover, Sonja O’Brien is organizing a city-wide yard sale on September 26 - with a portion of the proceeds to benefit the Rescue Ridge animal shelter - and needs your help.  (Sonja’s also the brains behind Asbury Park’s Lamppost Banner Program).

“Rescue Ridge is a unique animal shelter that takes in cats and dogs mostly deemed unadoptable and close to being euthanized,” said Sonja.  “They work tirelessly with these animals to rehabilitate them and place them in a loving home.  I personally took a tour of their operations and witnessed a team of dedicated volunteers. 

“To turn unwanted items into a good cause, kindly pledge to have a yard sale and then donate at least ten percent of the proceeds directly to Rescue Ridge.  All participants of the yard sales will receive their address listed in the advertising, all fliers posted around the area and will also fall under the town-wide permit that is required.

“And if you don’t want to have a sale, no worries…every sale needs buyers.”

You sell your extra stuff (we all have it).  Or buy someone else’s (you’ve got room).  Innocent animals benefit (there’s no better cause).  And Sonja does the tough lifting (figuratively) and coordinating.  It couldn’t be easier to do something positive and helpful. 

Email her at obriensonja@aol.com for more info. 

  MarthaStewart.com:  Why Animals End Up at Shelters

I’m happy to report that overall, people seem to be getting better-educated about the amazing animals that exist in our country’s shelters and rescue groups. However, myths about shelter animals still exist. And the fears elicited by these myths only deter otherwise well-meaning people from finding their new best friend through adoption.

So I’m calling on all of you animal lovers out there to help me dispel these destructive myths! Are you in?

First of all, it may be helpful for people to understand that most animals wind up at shelters through no fault of their own. According to the National Council on Pet Population Study and Policy, moving is the primary reason family pets are relinquished.

And landlords that don’t allow pets are one of the biggest obstacles for renters with companion animals. (Big kudos to any landlords out there who accommodate our furry family members: Research actually shows that this makes good business sense, too — but that’s a topic for another post!) Similarly, shelter personnel report that many companion animals are relinquished because an owner has died or is relocating to a senior facility that prohibits pets.

Other reasons topping the list include the cost of regular pet care, a lack of time, and allergies. Additionally, animals given as gifts (bad idea!) often end up at the shelter either because recipients are unable to keep them or the animals grew up and no one planned for them getting bigger. And it is a sad fact that litters born to unaltered animals often wind up in shelters en masse — all the more reason to adopt from the shelter, as they typically come already altered!

Finally, one of the most avoidable reasons that loyal family pets find themselves at the shelter is because they got lost and did not have a micro-chip or tag to facilitate a reunion with their family. I cannot overstate the importance of having both a tag and a micro-chip! So many well-meaning people proudly declare that their companion animals don’t need to have identification because they never leave their side. But unforeseen events can happen. You get the point.

Needless to say, these perfectly adoptable animals are ending up at shelters through no fault of their own! So it’s up to us to help them get into loving homes and to take the necessary steps to keep them from entering the shelter in the first place.

So I’ll ask you once again… are you in?

In Kinship,
Dr. Pia Salk, MarthaStewart.com, (8/23/09)

Two of our area’s shelter’s are Monmouth County SPCA (Eatontown) and Rescue Ridge (Howell).

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UGLY INTO ART FOR YOUR PET

Lately, I have been so amazed at the gorgeous, fun products created for our companion animals. 

From $2,000 hypo-allergenic dog beds made of 18 karat gold fabric to simply elegant leashes created from sailboat rope or “green” leases made of recycled billboard paper to ceramic Burberry water bowls featuring the famous nova check plaid.

I read – I believe in Forbes Magazine – consumers, despite the recession, are choosing to spoil their dogs and cats because they believe the return on investment far outweighs the expense or sacrifice associated with the purchase.  I can totally agree with that.  

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Artist, Natalie Timm, formerly of Spring Lake, has created a wonderful and original product that benefits both pets and their owners – turning ugly into art. 

Natalie paints beyond beautiful custom pet placemats – featuring an original portrait of your companion animal – taking a unsightly and generic feeding area and making it special and one-of-a-kind.

“The floor is the last frontier of art and the placemats are another layer of art for one’s home,” said Natalie, founder of NatsPetMats.  “Original art in everyday surroundings is my joy to make.  I wanted to provide people with long-term great experience every time they look at the placemat.”

After completing the questionnaire on Natalie’s website I answered more of her specific questions about my preferences and Truman.  Afterwards, I sent specific photos of the “model”.

“I interview the client and offer choices to get people thinking however I want a feeling of exactly what the customer is dreaming of and what he or she likes,” said Natalie who paints with her dog Zoe by her side.  “The more custom it is the more people and their guests will love it.” 

Natalie also requested photos of the area of my kitchen where Truman’s bowl sits and descriptions of colors I prefer.  I am color blind so that was tricky, however patient Natalie took the time to make sure the placemat flowed with the rest of the house – both in color and design. 

“I study the individuality of each pet’s features – their eyelashes, whiskers, fur patterns, muscle tone,” said Natalie.  “I paint a few ‘tests’ in watercolor until I feel I have captured the energy and individuality of the pet.  Then I paint the placemat.”

The entire process takes Natalie more than ten hours and it shows.  I wanted to frame Truman’s mat (made from recycled or repurposed vinyl flooring).  Natalie captured his energy, excitement and curiosity – even getting his spots correctly positioned in the portrait.  I smile every time I see the placemat. 

“Right now, I am working on a placemat for a newly married couple in Sea Girt who adopted two dachshund puppies,” said Natalie.  “They want the mat to be a benchmark as they grow up so they can always have a memory of their dogs as puppies.”

We live in an art infused town.  There’s no reason for our companion animals not to enjoy their own custom masterpieces.

www.NatsPetMats.com

Richard@TheBPlot.com

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SHELTER SHELTERS “THE TOUGHEST”

GUNNAR WITH BRIAN

Purchasing a dog or cat is like eating veal – gross and unnecessary.  Commoditizing any life is appalling.  It’s almost as horrific as selling someone else’s kidney.

No matter how great the breeder is, purchasing a companion animal lubes the wheels of puppy mill commerce.  Have you seen the “Oprah” and National Geographic Channel programs about puppy mills?

Recently, I was introduced to a local animal shelter that is devoted to rehabilitating and finding good homes for dogs and cats in our area.

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“At the Rescue Ridge shelter, we take the most unadoptable animals and invest the time in making them very adoptable,” said Brian Watkins, volunteer dog handler and three-year Asbury Park resident.  “Sometimes it takes months, sometimes weeks and sometimes a day or two but we are dedicated to working as hard and as long as it takes to rehab and find a good home for these dogs and cats.”

Brian lives by, err…with what he says.  He and his girlfriend, Marilyn McGarvin, adopted their companion animal, Gunnar (an adorable pitt bull) from the shelter.

“Gunnar was an ‘eleventh hour’ dog – slated to be euthanized by the SPCA after being housed there for one year – until Rescue Ridge stepped in,” said Brian, who with his girlfriend Marilyn has been volunteering at the shelter for three years.  “Today, he is a super part of our family.” 

Gunnar is also paying it forward by serving as a “dog therapy dog” at Rescue Ridge, headquartered on a farm in Howell. 

“What Gunner does with the other dogs makes my jaw drop,” said Brian.  “Having a balanced dog around the other dogs speeds up training considerably.  It’s something you have to see to believe.”  

GUNNAR SMILING

Rescue Ridge was founded in 2001 by Terri Willis.  Terri worked tirelessly – some would say gave her life – for stray animals. 

“At fifty-one years old, Terri needed and had the opportunity to receive a heart and lung transplant,” said Brian.  “The physicians stressed that she could not be around anything that could compromise her health – including stray animals.  Terri told the doctors to find someone else for the transplant because more than anything she wanted to continue taking care of animals.”

Today, Terri’s passion for helping companion animals – including horses and, one time, a chicken – lives on thanks to her friends Marybeth Tkach, president; Maureen Bedard, assistant director of Rescue Ridge.

Brian, like me, is passionate about the fact that many people are missing out on the love pitt bull dogs from Rescue Ridge give because they suffer from pitt bull ignorance.

“The American Kennel Club rates pitt bulls better in temperament for families than Cocker Spaniels, Collies and many other dogs,” said Brian.  “There are just a handful of breeds that rate better, like the Golden Retriever.  It is all about how any dog is raised.”

It really is how the individual dog is raised.  Anyone who has met my Truman, found on the street by Carolyn Curtain three years ago, will tell you he has so much love to give.

Additional locals who volunteer their valuable time at Rescue Ridge: Doreen Babo, Tinton Falls; Katie Elko, Tinton Falls; Chris McCarthy, Asbury Park and Joni Wuchter, Wall. 

Cheers to everyone taking the time to take care of innocent four-legged friends.

Rescue Ridge is not rated by Charity Navigator.  Executives at Rescue Ridge did not respond to repeated requests (under direction of Charity Navigator) for information, during a two week time-period, regarding the disbursement and allocation of donations.  While, in my opinion and others, this creates more questions than answers, the lack of response has no reflection on the documented success and dedication of the volunteers and the many, many, many companion animals the non-profit has helped.

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YOUR BRIEFS: DOGS INVITED TO JOIN PARADE, PREPARING FOR ROAD TRIP

DOGS INVITED TO JOIN ASBURY PARK’S JULY FOURTH PARADE

Dogs and their owners have been invited for the second year to participate in Asbury Park’s Fourth of July Parade.

“Last year we had about 15 dogs of all sizes that walked the entire route and a few more that joined in along the way,” said Amy Quinn, owner of dogs Baily and Lance with her partner Heather Jensen.  “It was such a hit that parade organizers decided to do it again this year.”

Leashed dogs and their owners should meet at the corner of Sewall and Grand Avenues between 12.15 pm and 12.30 pm on Saturday.  The parade will travel west on Cookman Avenue to Main Street.  Then walk Main Street north turning east on Fifth Avenue, ending at Kingsley Avenue.

“It’s a slow stroll and a really fun way to see your neighbors and enjoy the parade,” said Amy.  “The weather should be great so don’t forget to bring some water for your dog.”

 Brian Watkins, Asbury Park resident and dedicated founder of Rescue Ridge animal shelter – a “last chance” shelter for dogs will be on-hand during the festivities with a few wonderful, loving dogs in need of a great home like yours.  Rescue Ridge and its unwaivering team of animal lovers is an amazing organization.  More to come about the shelter in future columns. 

“How great would it be if someone adopted a dog on the Fourth of July,” said Amy. 

READY TO SPARKLE FOR ROAD TRIP?

As the city and its homes prepare for Road Trip 8, I wanted to make a shout-out to one of Asbury Park’s best kept secrets – Sparkle Window Cleaner. 

You think you clean your windows well, but you don’t.  Leave it to a pro once and you’ll never waste your time again.  The difference is clear – ha.  

Owned and operated by Asbury Park-er Ed Feger Sparkle does the best, most detailed job (inside and out, up and down) around – at the best price.  Ed is offering special pricing for Road Trip.  Sparkle up.  609.672.1304.

 

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It figures that one of Truman’s favorite leashes comes from a company founded by a Jersey boy with a huge fondness for Asbury Park, who spent his youthful summers in Point Pleasant.  Scott Schaible, founder of Ecollargy created the coolest leashes and collars made, literally, from the old billboards you pass on the highway.  “An estimated 250 million square feet of billboards go into US landfills each year,” said Scott.  “We literally take an old billboard, clean it, stripcut pieces, and sew them into unique products.”  The handle of the whimsical leash is wrapped in old bike innertube pieces for a super comfortable grip.  Leashes and collars – with a tag that reads “I used to be a billboard” – come in various styles and sizes and wear over time into a soft, washed denim-like texture.  They are also insanely reasonably priced.  Itzadog.com

Food, treats and even a calming tea for dogs – all 100% natural and made in a human-food San Diego-based bakery.  The facility is FDA inspected and humans actually sample the food as part of the quality control process.  I can’t stand how much I love this company.  Truman can’t pick a favorite – hand-made cookies made with real duck and cherries or buffalo and blueberry.   Your baby deserves this.   TheHonestKitchen.com You know you wonder what life is like for your dog when you are not around.  Uncle Milton’s Pet’s Eye View Camera give you a dog’s-eye view with this lightweight digital camera that attaches onto your dog’s collar.  Set the self-timer to take a picture every 1, 5 or 15 minutes to take a sneak peek into his secret world.  Comes with a USB cord to download photos directly into your computer.  This is seriously so much fun.  UncleMilton.com

“Spott’s Canine Miscellany” – written entirely for dogs and their doting owners and admirers, the result is an irresistible potpourri of canine facts, embracing the essential, the trivial, the intriguing, and the extraordinary.  You will discover such whimsical treats as dog epigraphs, the origins of breed names, an international guide to the word “dog,” Aesop’s fabled dogs, dog-bite statistics and dogs who went down with the Titanic.  Totally fun beach read.  Amazon.com

Forget those horrible pills for dogs to eliminate the urine burn marks on your meticulously manicured lawn.  Drop a Dog Rock – 100% natural, mined from a quarry in Australia – in your dogs water bowl every two months and it will filter out impurities from the water such as Tin, ammonia and nitrates.  ”The basic ideas is the three inch diameter rock being paramagnetic changes the ion exchange in the water,” said Michael Jordan, owner.  “This results in the nitrate level in the water dropping and not being ingested.  What’s important to note is that the Dog Rock does not change the pH of the water.”  The Dog Rock is the hottest pet item in Australia and the UK right now.  BullyStickDirect.com

Serious dog nutrition with fun names like Grrnola, Bowwowbreakfast, Fido Flakes, Chompions and Chewabunga that includes l-carnitine to help convert fat to energy.  One extra pound on a dog is like 10 on a person.  Bowwowbucks.org

Magniflex, an Italian mattress company, offers your baby the ultimate in sleeping arrangments with a 22 karat gold fibers woven into the ultimate fabric covering.  In addition to imparting a luxurious look and feel, the gold offers anti-bacterial and anti-static properties that resist dust mites and keep the mattress dry and cool.   How fabulous  a jump would this be for Truman to go from three years ago sleeping on the streets of Asbury Park to this bed (approx. $2,000 for a 50 pound dog)?  When you learn about this mattress, you want one for your dog, one for yourself – forget Duxiana mattresses - and one for our sexy friend in the photo below (on the right).  Magniflex.com

Items featured have been donated to the Monmouth County SPCA Thrift Store and are available for purchase.

Richard@TheBPlot.com

THE DOG ISSUE

Asbury Park saw its best weather of the year, so far, last weekend – eighty-five degrees and sunny with a beautiful breeze. Spring fever was all over. I love the first days of guys in shorts after a long winter.

Saturday and Sunday were perfect days to take a walk on the boardwalk with your family – however “family” is defined for you.

I hope, however, you did not bring your dog to the boardwalk, as I saw a few misguided out-of-towners with money to spend, do.

On Sunday, as I was petting the dogs, an ever-so-gentlemanly police officer kindly explained to the couple that “no dogs are allowed on the boardwalk, ever.”

The surprised couple – again, wanting shop, eat, enjoy our boardwalk and regale their friends with great boardwalk stories about Asbury Park, got in their cars and left.

The issue of allowing pets on the boardwalk has gotten a lot of attention lately – it’s one of the hottest topics on the “Yahoo! List”, initiated a community meeting at Asbury Bark (see previous article at TheCoaster.net) and, as a result of the meeting, the city council has organized to develop a solution to the “dogs on the boardwalk” issue.

“Can you imagine Hudson River Park or the Santa Monica beach if everyone had to walk their bike or leave their dog at home?” said resident Dan Guevara. “We want to enjoy what we rightfully deserve and pay for with our taxes.”

I, and many others, agree with Dan. It seems that politicos in town are listening regarding this simple quality of life issue.

“We can come to a compromise for dog access to the boardwalk during peek hours, during peek season,” said Councilman Ed Johnson, owner of two cats and, to his credit, who I saw as the first outspoken politico on the subject. “I don’t see any reason why we can’t work together – dog owners, dog lovers, people who don’t have a preference to enable everyone to enjoy all the city has to offer.”

Since the meeting at Asbury Bark, many scenarios and suggestions have been proposed.

“I am in support of a pilot program of allowing dogs on the boardwalk possibly making it a revenue generator for the City by selling doggie badges,” said Councilwoman and owner of two dogs Sue Henderson.

The badge concept sounds like a lot of bureaucracy to me, however anything is better than what we have now.

“Even with leashed dogs there has got to be some kind of enforcement as far as controlling your animal and waste. I am not the only council member who has gotten calls to please not allow dogs on the boardwalk,” said Councilman John Loffredo who is also leaning towards some sort of compromise.

Last week, City Manager, Terry Reidy reached out to council and community members, including resident Scott Schechter, to participate in a committee – whose first meeting was on Tuesday evening – headed by Councilwoman Henderson. The results of the meeting were not known by deadline.

“This issue comes down to common sense for dog owners,” said Scott. “Naturally there are times when dogs should not be on the boardwalk – for their own safety.”

Dog lovers unite so this issue does not drag out or take up too much valuable time for our over-imposed upon politicians.

“There is a key way to help influence the resolution of this issue,” said Jim Modica, owner of Asbury Bark. “Voice your opinion to the council immediately.”

“This can and should be resolved by Memorial Day,” said Johnson.

Councilwoman Henderson and Amy Quinn, currently running for City Council – and a vocal supporter of this issue concurred.

Lets all hold them to that.

Councilman James Bruno declined to comment and the Mayor did not respond to two email inquiries.

THE KELLIE AND NELLIE SHOW

Ocean Grove, the most dog-friendly town in the area – Asbury Park City Council can you hear me – has welcomed its newest four-legged resident and you can watch the official “big reveal” go down on television Saturday (March 14), at 8 pm.

From thousands of applicants, Animal Planet’s “Underdog to Wonderdog,” on basic cable, played canine matchmaker for longtime Ocean Grove resident Kelli Chaffers helping her adopt Nellie – a beautiful, mature collie-mix.

“It’s been an incredible experience taping the show for the past few weeks,” said Kelli also parent to a son Kelsey and two cats, Miss Diva and Handsome. “I told the producers I wanted a dog that lounges, not runs and Nellie is the exact speed I want.”

I spoke with the show’s hottie-host Ryan Smith about the production.

TBP: Why did you choose Kelli for your show?

Ryan: A couple of reasons. First of all, Kelli has a vivacious and exciting personality. We love working with people and families that have a zest for life, and that’s Kelli in a nutshell. In addition, Kelli’s son is leaving home for the first time. While a beautiful dog cannot replace Kelsey, it can help ease Kelli’s family life adjustment.

Part of our job is to take relatively unadoptable dogs and match them with owners that can help them; the dog in this episode is shy, reserved and shut down as a result of its past, and it needs an amazing person like Kelli to make it’s life wonderful.

TBP: Kelli was made for TV. Part of your show is also doing a makeover on the dog and small home improvements. What did your team do to Kelli’s home?

Ryan: I can tell you this: our canine carpenter David’s objective is to build something that brings a somewhat shy dog out of her shell and put her in an environment where she can learn to become just as gregarious as Kelli.

TBP: Anything about the show that was challenging or different?

Hey, I have to save something for when you watch the show. I can reveal that the personality issues with this dog were unlike any issues that we have encountered before.

This is a great episode for people considering adopting a shelter dog without great knowledge of that dog’s past. Viewers will learn a lot about how to uncover a dog’s history in order to make it the best possible companion for its owner.

Our dog for this episode is one of the most beautiful dogs I have ever been around, and she goes on an amazing journey throughout the show. I really can’t wait for you to see it.

TBP: What did you think about our Historic Ocean Grove?

Ryan: Our team was blown away when we visited Ocean Grove – in awe of the striking architecture. We all fell in love with the serene beach community and its residents. We couldn’t have picked a more perfect place to shoot our show.

TBP: Your show takes a super-important issue – rescuing and nurturing mature dogs – and makes it engaging, fun and inspiring. Thanks Ryan.

Briefly: Save the date for “Gaylarious” a comedy show presented by Jill Potter and Aaron Coleman’s production companies, Saturday, April 4 at the WonderBar.

“Hosted by Christie Girlington, the show is a team of four cutting-edge gay and lesbian next-generation queer comics,” said Jill.

Tickets at AwwMama.com.

Richard@TheBPlot.com

Puppy Love | 02.12.09

by Richard Virgilio

Despite what you may have heard, Paradise and Georgie’s are not the only places to look for love around here.  Try the Monmouth County SPCA and adopt a dog or cat.  

Puppy love expert and editor of more than 100 books about cats and dogs, Andrew DePrisco, discusses this very special type of matchmaking in his book, “Woof! A Gay Man’s Guide to Dogs” (see last week’s column at TheCoaster.net).  

“Most of us spend more time with our dogs than we do with our partners,” said Andrew, an Interlaken resident.  “Dogs are the ultimate long-term commitment and choosing the right one deserves more attention than the shirt you’ll buy for spring.”  

In honor of Valentine’s Day, I asked Andrew to comment on a few gay divas and icons, and their dogs – as he does in his book. 

“Celebs love being in the book,” said Andrew.  “Who wouldn’t love being placed between Orlando Bloom and Brad Pitt?”  

Elton John:

“Elton has more than twenty dogs – a compound of rescue dogs.  It seems she wants everything she sees, including dogs.”

Clay Aiken:

“He has a border terrier.  That’s a rough dog.  This silly little twink likes to be handled rough.”  

Lance Bass:

“Lance is partnered with two twin Australian Beagle crosses.  I think its fun that he is sleeping with twins every night.”  

Orlando Bloom:

“He’s a honey.  I love Orlando.  He has a rescue dog mix and that’s sexy.”

George Takai:

“George and his husband have a Papillion – a small French breed with big ears that resemble a butterfly’s wings.  Very smart dogs – just like George.  Perfect match.”

Justin Timberlake:  

“As such an ultimate straight guy, why does Justin have such a gay dog – a Yorkie?  But sometimes a dog finds you rather than you finding the dog.”

President Barack Obama:

“He is such an intellectual and thoughtful guy…and athletic.  My choice of dog for him would be a Boxer.  Boxers, especially male Boxers, bond very closely with their owners.  Given that one of his daughters is allergic to dogs, the family needs a non-shedding dog.  My favorite non-shedding dog is a Spanish Water dog.  They are frighteningly smart – bred to dive underwater to find gear.  The breed has a very beautiful coat similar to a sheep.”  

The last paragraph in Andrew’s book sums up life in this great city with our dogs perfectly.

“Once you’ve found the perfect canine companion, the whole gay world is your oyster.  Sunning at the shore, sipping at the rim of an overpriced cocktail and watching the surfers come in, you and your partner can woof all day at the indescribable joys of low tide.”

Cheers to you and love this Valentine’s Day…and low tide.

Briefly:  Something you may not know about me is that I love anything and everything Andy Warhol.  If you share my interest, Graphic artist Billy Mecca of Elberon just sent me a great link to raw footage of Andy signing his book “America” at the Fiorucci boutique in NYC on Valentine’s Day, 1986. 

 Richard@TheBPlot.com

Woof Book | 02.05.09

by Richard Virgilio

February – the “month of love.”  There’s not much we love absolutely more around here than our pets.   

Andrew DePrisco, local writer and dog-lover, put pen to paper about his passion for puppies and received the Benjamin Franklin Award from the Independent Book Publishers Association for “Best Gay and Lesbian Book.”  

Andrew’s “Woof! A Gay Man’s Guide to Dogs” (BowTie Press) is a creative, funny, interesting, energetic and really, really beautiful book about the unique bond a gay man has with his dog. 

“I wanted to write a book that conveyed important information about the pets we love, in an entertaining way,” said Andrew.  “Woof! is edutainment for all lovers of dogs, especially those who care about the quality of the dogs they select and the authenticity of the crystals in those same dogs’ collars.”

The irreverent tome offers prospective and current canine owners facts about selecting, naming, raising, training (both family and dog) and loving the “gay-perfect pup.”  

Andrew tweaked the standard tests used by dog breeders to evaluate a puppy’s personality for members of the QKC – the Queer Kennel Club – with questions like “Are most of your shirts collarless or sleeveless?” and “Have you ever been naked in a barn?” 

Just as there is a top for every pot, there is a dog for every guy.

“If gay men were as simple as young, untrained puppies, life would be so much easier,” said Andrew.  

After revealing his QKC grouping, the reader learns various breeds associated with each group.  Andrew – the author of 10 dog and cat books and editor of more than 100 – found there are 28 “breeds” of gay men, including All American Boy, Fashionista, Guppy, Pump Boy, Size Queen, Gaysian and Southern Belle, to name a few.  

“From drag queens to butch cowboys, no one is safe in the book,” said Andrew.  “Leather guys are softies that like to dress up – and there are better dogs than others to match that personality.”

Andrew spent a year researching and writing Woof!. 

“I interviewed twenty-five of the best breeders in North America,” said Andrew.  “If you follow my recommendations for choosing a breed, getting it from the right source, socializing and training it, you will not be unhappy with the pet you choose.” 

For those of us who prefer saving a dog, rather than buying one, Andrew, FYI, is not all about breeders – in any way, shape or form.

“There is something sexy about someone who goes to a rescue and saves a dog,” said Andrew.  “Rescue groups for purebreds do an amazing job of saving puppies from horrible breeders and stores.”

And despite its title, the book is not just for gay men – Joan Rivers is one of Andrew’s biggest fans.

“This book is my dog bible, and DePrisco is my new heroine,” said Joan. 

That’s love.  

Next week, in honor of Valentine’s Day, Andrew talks doggie dirt on Justin Timberlake, Elton John and other gay divas and icons.  

Briefly:  Speaking of Joan, her new book about plastic surgery, “Men are Stupid and they Like Big Boobs” is fab.  My favorite quote regarding spending money on beautification in today’s environment:  “It’s better to see a pretty face getting out of an ugly car, than an ugly face out of a pretty car.”

Richard@TheBPlot.com

HOLIDAY PAW-FECTION

Charlotte Reed, petiquette (pet etiquette) expert and Febreze Pet Odor Eliminator spokesperson is back with a gift of holiday advice to keep every member of your family Vanderbilt-ready, should Anderson Cooper come-a-calling.

TBP:  How can holiday travel with a pet be made easier?

Charlotte:  Pack a special suitcase for your dog filled with comforts from home – maybe his bed, favorite toys, treats, blankets and bowl.  Bringing these things makes the car ride and stay away from home, more comfortable for everyone.  

TBP:  Any advice once guests arrive at their destination and start celebrating?

Charlotte:  The guest dog should arrive freshly bathed and brushed.  Also, consider the sizes of all the dogs in the house.  Set aside some time for the dogs to get comfortable with one another.  If you are introducing smaller sized dogs to larger dogs, remember some dogs have “small dog syndrome” – being aggressive only when larger dogs are in their space.

When adults go to a holiday party and leave the dogs alone, dogs who have not spent a lot of time together should be gated separately.  Keep the phone number of the local pet sitter on hand in case of emergencies.    

TBP:  What does a host do if a guest insists on feeding his dog from the table?

Charlotte:  Before guests come to my home I give them the “Doggie 411.”  I emphasize that there is no feeding the dogs because if they get off their schedule, the pooches always have a “mishap” in the guest room – ha ha.  They get the point. 

TBP:  How can Barack and Michelle Obama, or anyone else planning on getting a family dog in 2009, successfully introduce a new pet into the family?

Charlotte:  Plan ahead.  Take time to select the best dog for your lifestyle and budget.  For those who suffer from allergies, like Barack’s daughter Malia, parents should consider a low-shedding breed like a Cairn Terrier.

I don’t advise getting a dog during the holidays or when you are moving into a new home such as The White House.  With all of the hub-bub, it will be very hard to get your new pooch on a schedule and to devote the proper amount of time to him.   

TBP:  How do you choose a gift that will make both the pet and owner happy?

Charlotte:  Consider the recipient of the gift.  Is he a puppy or senior dog?  For puppies, small rope toys are great.  Large dogs like hard chew toys.  Choose something soft, plush and light for a senior dog. 

For owners, Febreze candles are a great gift or my book Miss Fido Manners.

TBP:  It’s a fantastic book and the Febreze “winter evening” candle’s scent is similar to a $35 candle I have – I was very impressed. 

Additional columns featuring Charlotte’s insights at TheCoaster.net.

Briefly:  Asbury Bark is offering Day no. 2 of pet holiday photos with or without Santa, Saturday (Dec. 13), noon to 4.30 pm.  Proceeds benefit the Monmouth county SPCA and Greyhound Rescue.  Reservations suggested: 732.775.4801.

And, the Asbury Park Film Initiative screening of “Milk,” starring Sean Penn, brought out 130 locals last Thursday, on a beautiful winter night.  The soon-to-be Oscar nominated film is playing now at Clearview Cinema in Red Bank.  Thanks to V.J. and Marilyn for a great evening.

Richard@TheBPlot.com

PETIQUETTE PART AMORE

Love is lovely.

Part 2 (Part 1 at TheCoaster.net) of my conversation with fabulous petiquette – pet etiquette – expert and Febreeze Pet Products spokesperson, Charlotte Reed, we discussed love and other loving issues.

The B Plot:  What’s the protocol for someone looking for love on the Asbury Park dog beach? 

Charlotte:  Even if the guy or girl is cute, you want to make sure the pet is friendly.  You can usually tell a friendly dog the same way as a person.  Look for a dog’s tail to be wagging side to side.  If the tail is straight up and moving like a metronome, the dog is scared or angry. 

Take off your hat and sunglasses because dogs can’t see your face and they cant get a sense of the person.  And hang up your cell phone. 

Don’t be a doggie stereotyper.  Judge every dog individually.

TBP:  Great, so your advice worked, bubbly red hearts are popping above both people’s heads and now the couple wants to spend their first full weekend together.  What’s a couple to do with their dogs?

Charlotte:  Before the dogs even meet the couple should make sure their rules and expectations are in synch.  If there is no sleeping on the couch for one dog, it has to be for both dogs that weekend. 

Have the dogs meet on “neutral” ground outside the house prior to playing inside.  When inside, make sure puppy gates are on-hand.

TBP:  What do they do if one dog learned some bad tricks and can’t stop loving the pillow on the floor, while the couple is loving on the couch?

Charlotte:  Take the pillow away and give the dog a chew toy.  Always make sure there are lots of toys available to avoid that situation. 

TBP:  And the new “future ex” loves people who love the environment.  How does the other person make her pet carbon neutral?

Charlotte:  There are many options to green up a pet’s life.  Put a filter on the faucet or fridge instead of giving the pet bottles of water that take centuries to decompose.  Use ‘green’ collars and leashes.  Also, some pet beds are made with fabric that resists dirt and smells – cutting down on water and energy usage.  Always use recycled bags for waste.

TBP:  Thanks Charlotte.  Loving your book, Miss Fido Manners.  Can’t wait to get your thoughts on petiquette for the holidays in November. 

Briefly:  Asbury Park resident, Jack Bradshaw, holds one of the keys to your pet’s long-term health with a new line of human-grade dog and cat food. 

“Sierra Natural is made with the highest quality ingredients – including vitamins and trace minerals – to create a food that maximizes the health and well-being of your pet,” stated Jack.

This is the only food – and I have tried at least four “premium” brands in the past year – that has controlled Truman’s digestive issues.   

“Our industry-unique home delivery program provides exclusive food freshness, for about ten percent less than the most comparable food at a pet store,” Jack continued.

Dog-grade dog food is not good enough for your baby.  Call Jack for samples: 201.248.7742.

Richard@TheBPlot.com

PETIQUETTE

Cheers to the fab Asbury Bark doggy fashions debuted recently at Wonder Bar’s benefit for the Monmouth County SPCA.

Now, what about some petiquette – pet etiquette – to go along with your pooch’s Cookman Avenue wardrobe?

I spoke with the foremost petiquette expert, Charlotte Reed, author of Miss Fido Manners, spokesperson for Febreeze Pet Odor Eliminator products and friend of Asbury Park about doggy protocol that would do any Rockefeller proud.

The B Plot:  Lots of Labor Day barbeques planned this weekend.  When is it okay to bring your dog?

Charlotte:  When the host invites your pet, specifically.  A guest should always wait to have their pet invited.  Hosts should be politely proactive in saying the barbecue is pet-friendly or not. 

TBP:  Once you get to the party, what do you do if your hosts are oblivious to how ill-behaved their own dogs are?

Charlotte:  Hosts should always be aware of their pet’s behavior.  If the dogs are not playing nice with others, the dogs should be gated off in a comfortable room until the party is over.  Just like at the doggie park – if the dog doesn’t behave, he has to leave.  If the hosts are not doing anything to help the situation, take your dog and leave or politely say something to the host about his dog’s behavior. 

Pet etiquette is two things:  taking a dog’s training and combining those skills with the owner’s consideration and respect for others.  Petiquette is about being a respectful human being. 

TBP:  Your book has a ton more detail.  How do you introduce a new dog to everyone at the dog beach?

Charlotte:  First meet and greets are very important.  The new dog should be sitting on a leash when he is introduced, with his owner kneeling down beside the dog.  Other dog owners should not let their pet come looming in.  And no jumping – pets and their owners.     

TBP:  How do you tell your friend his dog stinks – as in smells?

Charlotte:  On the next occasion – barbeque, birthday – give dog shampoo along with a pet toy as a gift.  Hopefully he will get the message.  Some breeds are more prone to odor, such as Bassets – who have very oily skin. 

A guest should never be able to smell a dog before seeing it.

TBP:  That’s where the Febreeze comes in.

Next week, Charlotte tackles breed bias, dogs and dating and how to make your pet carbon neutral.

Briefly:  Save the date to Save Deal Lake: Saturday, September 27.  A great afternoon and evening of fun – boat parades, parties and more – is being planned by a passionate grass-roots team of Wanamassa, Asbury Park and Interlaken residents, spearheaded by Mark Fleming and Eileen Chapman.  Everyone from everywhere is invited to decorate watercraft and join in the boat parade.  Prizes will be awarded.  Plan to attend one or more of the benefit events to cheer on the bedazzled floatillas. 

Monies raised will be specifically allocated for a special project with Friends of Deal Lake.  Lakefront residents are encouraged to reach out for more party details.  Everyone:  for more info, to pre-register a boat or benefit event or volunteer – DealLakeEvents@Yahoo.com or 732.361.3823.

Richard@TheBPlot.com

FATHER’S DNA 2008

Everyone in Asbury Park resembles a character from Sex in the City.  For Sex in Our City, which character are you?  I think I channel Miranda most often.

Some friends believe I most resemble the character Charlotte.  This, partially because Truman is the baby I adopted from Asbury Park Animal Control.  Kind of similar, I guess, to when Charlotte adopted a child from China. 

This Father’s Day, Truman celebrates his second year as my adopted baby.  He is definitely a Virgilio family member – making me crazy and love him concurrently. 

I received the results of my baby’s Wisdom Panel doggy DNA test.  The eight-pages of customized results were surprising and the information that accompanied the results was cooler than I ever imagined. 

A few weeks ago I told you Truman and I went to the Oakhurst Veterinary Hospital and visited with Asbury Park resident Dr. Danielle Rawlins D.V.M.  Dr. Danielle graciously and patiently explained the test, its implications and extracted a teeny vial of blood from him.         

Two weeks later I received the results.

The most surprising revelation was that Truman has zero of the Boxer breed in him.  You and I – judging from the emails you sent me – really would have put money on the fact that he was partially Boxer.

Truman is comprised of five different breeds of dogs, demonstrating – when I think about it – noticeable traits from all of them:  Irish Terrier, Border Terrier, Mastiff, Bulldog, Bullmastiff and Staffordshire Terrier.

There’s tons more amazing detail in the “results package” however I refuse to become one of “those people” who drone on about how perfectly, dynamically genetically interesting their baby or grandchild is.

The results of this, the most extensive canine DNA test around (detecting 134 AKC recognized breeds), will prove invaluable for the long and short term – immediately to explain some of his personality and more; for years to come, to help determine potential health risks and how to avoid these risks, as Truman ages. 

The info empowers his veterinarian and I – actually saving me money by eliminating the need for some potential future health screenings. 

Doesn’t it just blow your mind that there is a DNA test for dogs?  I know Carrie Bradshaw would be impressed.

Wisdom Panel DNA test:  $124.95 (online) plus vet fees, which should simply be for a standard exam. More info at: WisdomPanel.com. 

Briefly:  See you this Saturday, 8 pm, at ReVision Theatre’s debut one-night performance of Richard Skipper as Carol Channing in Hello, Dolly!, at the Paramount Theatre.

Also, I am loving David Sedaris’ just-launched tome “When You Are Engulfed in Flames.”  David is totally one of my favorite writers.  Great gift for Dad – it’s what my dad is getting.  Great beach read, too.

Richard@TheBPlot.com

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